My Epic Grindr Fails

You know how it goes:

– You chat with someone

– They turn out to be an idiot

– You screenshot the chat and send it to your friend on Whatsapp

So allow me to present some of my most epic fails in recent history. (And when you’re done, check out other cool ones here)

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Gay Myth #4: All gay men are into pop culture.

Marilyn Monroe Pop Art - by Andy Warhol

“John Mayor is such a dick for dumpin Jennifer Aniston.

Just watched Gaga’s Telephone video. One word: epic!

Enno ma32oul the Grammy nominations were announced & Ke$ha didn’t get a single nod?? FAIL!

For real, though. Did O.J. REALLY do it?”

There are some stuff that a lot of gay men care and talk about.

But not every gay man out there knows who O.J. is  (that’s  O.J. Simpson if you’re wondering).

Pop culture and celebrity mean a lot to many people. Celebrity tabloids. The paparazzi. It’s a multi-billion dollar industry! When an ambulance rushes Britney to the hospital & Paris Hilton is taken to jail, CNN stops whatever it’s airing and covers these stories as Breaking News. They sell! But…

Not ALL gay men care about pop culture!

Not all gay men watch E! News at 5 pm everyday, Fashion Police at 4:30 pm on Sat, & Oprah at 7 pm from Sat to Wed.

And that rocks!

It’s exciting when my boyfriend doesn’t know shit about pop culture! That way, he’ll introduce me to his world, and I’ll introduce him to mine.

The first story I’ll tell him would be why the night I watched the 2003 VMAs live on MTV was one of the most memorable “pop culture” moments of my life.



Gay Myth #2: All gay men are fashionable.


Contrary to popular belief, not ALL gay men are fashionable.

I don’t think “stylish” is a negative stereotype to portray cause having a good eye for clothes & accessories is actually pretty cool.

But there are gays who will wear those awful pants and fugly ass t-shirts. Just because they’re gay doesn’t mean they’re bound to be stylish.

Maybe this myth comes from the fact that most famous fashion designers are gay, or because people think gay men take more time to groom and take good care of their bodies more than straight men.

Truth is, a stylish gay man makes a great shopping buddy for a girl. Take me and my straight best friend. If she tries on an ugly dress at Vero Moda, I will be honest and tell her she could do better. And while she’s in the fitting room, I’ll look around the store for something hot and sexy and hand it to her. I love shopping for her more than I do for myself!

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Gay Myth #1: All gay men are feminine.

There’s nothing wrong with being a feminine gay man. Not at all.

But being a gay man doesn’t necessary mean being feminine.

There are many butch and masculine men who like men.

There are ‘feminine’ gay men. They just are that way.

And there are ‘masculine’ gay men. They just are that way.

Stop bashing on kids and men who are in touch with their feminine side and calling them FouFou and pede.

That’s just so immature and 2nd grade.