Should I Look or Should I Touch?

“We’re on a break”.

That’s what he said.

The “he” is a guy I met last week at a party. 5 minutes into our dancing, we were making out and doin some over-the-jeans-action on the dance floor.

I wanted to get to know him better cause he looks like an interesting person (plus he’s cute). So during our online chat, he tells me he’s on a break with his boyfriend who’s out of the country.

A part of me is saying “Fuck your boyfriend. Long distance never works”, while another part of me is telling me to stay away and not get in this mess.

I most probably won’t get in the mess. It’s not like i’m obsessed with him.

But I was wondering what YOU think.

Do you think you could date a guy who’s on a break with his boyfriend? Or would you rather wait until they’ve actually broken up and it’s less messy?

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19 thoughts on “Should I Look or Should I Touch?

  1. rudi September 26, 2012 / 7:42 pm

    Good question. Finally he is on a break not you. Being good boy is nice but life is too short. Your decision will be as you wish.

    • BeirutBoy September 27, 2012 / 8:52 pm

      Haha. “good boy”. Thanks for the comment.

      • rudi September 29, 2012 / 10:00 pm

        your welcome, B-blogger :]

  2. witchylisa September 26, 2012 / 7:46 pm

    A break is a just a break-up in a wig because it’s about waiting to find someone better than your current boyfriend and then taking it off

    • BeirutBoy September 27, 2012 / 8:53 pm

      Similar to my definition of “breaks”. Hate those. Like we’re either together or we’re not.
      10x 4 d comment Witchy.

  3. John September 27, 2012 / 7:38 am

    If you go for him, he will soon be on a break form YOU. Watch it !

    • BeirutBoy September 27, 2012 / 8:55 pm

      Whattttsss? That’s harsh. Dont you think ur going overboard here? =P

  4. Thearies September 27, 2012 / 11:03 am

    People are responsible for what comes out of their mouth…niceness, insults, flirts, lies, puke. If he says hes fine with it, then ur absolved of all responsibility regarding his fluctuating “relationshit”. Get naked, get laid, nexxxxt!

    • BeirutBoy September 27, 2012 / 9:00 pm

      lol. ur not good @ being subtle, are u? i like that. thanks.

  5. Jameel September 27, 2012 / 11:31 am

    I say stay out dear! A guy with that unresolved emotional baggage will carry on to be in your relationship, you both need to be fresh for each other for it be your moment, your thing, exclusive, not holding to a maybe! So don’t call him. maybe!

    • BeirutBoy September 27, 2012 / 9:01 pm

      tho it’s very hard to always enter a new relationship WITHOUT any baggage. we all have some sort of baggage i guess.
      “don’t call him. maybe!”. Nice blog post title for the future. 10x!

  6. Kobe Peanut September 27, 2012 / 11:57 am

    Im the type who avoids a mess. if you want a quick fuck (im not the one night stand type but to each his own) then sure knock your self out. but if its s relationship you seek with him. wait till he is done and over with that he is currently in.
    as ‘witchylisa’ said previously
    “A break is a just a break-up in a wig because it’s about waiting to find someone better than your current boyfriend and then taking it off”

    • BeirutBoy September 27, 2012 / 9:02 pm

      Good advice. 10x KP. =)

  7. 15-year-old-gay-guy September 28, 2012 / 5:16 pm

    I believe that a cheater will always be a cheater so don’t expect a stable and nice relationship. I don’t think his boyfriend likes what he’s doing now, why hurt the poor boyfriend?
    My opinion? Don’t get involved.

  8. Mi7tar September 29, 2012 / 5:28 am

    First of all its been a long time since I was here bucuse I thought u r not going to post anything new and I was waiting 4 u the whole summer anyway I’m so exited becuse there are so many things to read.XD

    Back to your post

    He is partying with u , so he need an excuse to get laid and a reason to break up with his BF ( I guess he doesn’t have a real one but its an excuse to not call you later )

    I know it’s gonna sound sluty but if he is hot and both of u are kissing already , so do it becuse it’s not a mess it’s just sex lol

  9. abc September 30, 2012 / 12:43 pm

    Go with the flow and try to not get too attached cause he’s obviously confused and trying to figure things out. It may or may not go your way.

  10. Anonymous October 2, 2012 / 11:29 am

    wait till the mess is sorted

  11. feministarab October 8, 2012 / 5:47 pm

    You shouldn’t be with a person even if he’s on a so called ” break ” with his boyfriend/girlfriend , cause you won’t know at some point they might make up and you’ll be left heart broken and he will be labelled as a cheater. We all want what we can’t have, and what’s forbidden is desired more. Wait and if its ment to be he’ll come around 🙂

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