If you were a guy chatting with me 4 years ago, chances are I was a pain.
Aside from playing hard to get with the guys I chatted with (even though I was always horny), I didn’t reveal too much info. I rarely showed a pic, waited for a couple of chats before revealing my name, and didn’t disclose my University’s name and major!
Well, karma’s a bitch!
I now chat with guys who don’t reveal their real name until they feel “they can trust me more”. Scared guys who reply with “why do you wanna know that?” when I ask them “where do you live?”.
My old habits have come back to haunt me, and I noticed this when I was chatting with a guy last week.
During the first five minutes, I showed him 5 pics, told him my name, age, and which field I worked in.
What did I get?
A scared response: “Man stop revealing this much info!”
For a second, I doubted myself. Was I really revealing too much to a stranger whose name I didn’t know?
I mean I’m happy I’m not hiding in the closet anymore, but people seem to be intimated from that and think you’re “too out”.
Should I be all Mother Teresa with these gay boys and give them time to grow out of their “scared state”. After all, I was like them once.
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been there, done that… and still doing it 😛
I’ll make an exception and be all Mother Teresa on ur ass. 😉
Where do you even meet new guys? MANJAM? *pukes a bit*
hihi
kindly share ur own techniques to meet guys here =P
Been there, done that… now that’s I am out of the dating scene I can’t help but relate to what you said cos that’s exactly what used to happen a couple of years ago 🙂
hey enta. 10x 4 stoppin by and commenting =)
Just act casual and go along with the conversation rather than just listing it like you’re an advertisement. =)
but it IS an advertisement! I prefer to get everything cleared out from the get go rather than chatting for a week then find out he’s not my type!
LOL! I guess there is no right answer here.. If they are “new” you might scare them off and if not then lucky you.. 🙂 Meh! Confusing!
shu badna na3mol ya ekhte..heyda jawna…heyda adarna… =P
Poor guys.
As you said, you had such problems years ago ( we all did ) and they are happening with other guys that you are talking with. i think that you should be understanding what they are going through 😉
5 pics ya zalim???? 3al aleele arjeena 1 😦
Yah arjeena 1 plz 😛
if u have a manjam, we’re bound to chat one day! =P
why not 😉
what is your manjam account??
you can send it to my mail if you want 🙂
Im on MJ 2 😛
I used 2 use my real name … But I dont do it anymore 😉
It’s kind of stupid 2 tell a guy about ur self and how u feel while he is thinking SEX SEX SEX
So
I don’t date
I don’t tel them my real name
I don’t give a shit about relationships anymore
I’ll kiss 1000 frog or I’ll sleep with them 2 find my own prince
Anyway
Im telling the guys everything about me except my real name and when I had sex recently 😛
OMG
It’s not about me
It’s about U lol
Try 2 learn from me loooool JK
LOVE YA 3>
Btw show us 1 of the 5 pix 😛
just make sure he doesnt check ur I.D. bil ghalat ..and when u see a friend on the street callin u by ur real name..RUN! 😛
LOL
Why not meet them personally in gay friendly pubs so u won’t be embarrased about your identity anyway and won’t be in the hassle of writing for hours
Well I rarely find my type in those pubs, and m shy. i rarely make the first move. but i so shud have the balls to do that! gna practice next time 😛
it’s the same here in Croatia…
I think one should have his limits, you don’t want precious info in wrong hands…
Am I the youngest one here?
ur definitely ONE of the youngest =P
Welcome…