It’s cool to be with a guy who brings you flowers, is nice to your parents, isn’t disgusted from your projectile vomit…a guy who tells you that you’re beautiful in a 3:00 a.m. text message.
But too sweet is sometimes a turn off.
I went on a good date with a guy and had a great time. But in the days that followed, he was messaging me saying the nicest things…things that you don’t necessarily say after only 2 days of chatting and a 3-hour date:
“I’m always thinking about you”
“I miss you”
I got turned off by all the sweetness! But why? Sweetness and romance are good things, aren’t they?
Maybe I wasn’t feeling it cause I still don’t KNOW the guy and he’s coming on too strong.
Or maybe I’ve been programmed to be attracted to a guy who is hard to get.
Am I looking for the thrill of the chase. Or am I just not into too much attention too soon?
Akh…does Madonna really know best?
Is rejection the greatest aphrodisiac?