Gay Myth #1: All gay men are feminine.

There’s nothing wrong with being a feminine gay man. Not at all.

But being a gay man doesn’t necessary mean being feminine.

There are many butch and masculine men who like men.

There are ‘feminine’ gay men. They just are that way.

And there are ‘masculine’ gay men. They just are that way.

Stop bashing on kids and men who are in touch with their feminine side and calling them FouFou and pede.

That’s just so immature and 2nd grade.
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2 thoughts on “Gay Myth #1: All gay men are feminine.

  1. Mehdi August 26, 2010 / 10:45 am

    What’s funny is I thought you were going to go the other way with this. Particularly within the gay community, feminine gays are not only treated as the norm, but as the ideal. Butch gays are in denial, are still in the closet, and are still dealing in hetero-normative ideals. They’re not attractive, and generally are also considered unhelpful to gay causes because they are not “proud.” All these, too, are myths. People may bash on the obvious (aka feminine) gay guy, but no one is possibly lonelier than the butch gay man, who is considered a traitor and impostor in both camps.

    • BeirutBoy August 27, 2010 / 1:45 am

      I just wish we could live in a world where:
      – Feminine gay boys are not made fun of because they’re supposed to “act like a man”
      – Butch gay boys are not bashed by gays for not acting “gay enough”

      So…

      If I am feminine or masculine, I’m gonna be shunned either way? Fuck that shit. To each his own.

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